As an African American male working in public health, the author has few peers in the field who can related to his experiences from a gender and race standpoint, and even fewer in his work as a doula and lactation educator. His work and experiences as a trail blazer in this field have involved a lot of emotional labor, but have been a blessing and a joy as well as providing him with a unique lens into the world of birth work and how nuances at the intersection of gender and race affect his peers.