Abstract
Background:
Caring for terminally ill patients with minor children can be very stressful. The perceived quality of life is significantly influenced by the Meaning in Life (MiL). No studies were found that focus on the prioritized special needs of this patient group.
Objectives:
The aim is to compare and contrast terminally ill parents with minor children and palliative care patients in Germany, in order to provide appropriate support beyond medical, nursing or therapeutic interventions.
Methods:
Terminally ill parents diagnosed were surveyed using a validated instrument ‘Schedule for Meaning in Life Evaluation (SMiLE)’. The study listed various areas that contribute to the MiL, followed by an evaluation of their importance and satisfaction levels. The researchers then compared these findings with data collected from palliative care patients.
Results:
In Germany, 54 patients, mostly female and with a mean age of 43, were included in this study between February 2017 and September 2020. The median age of the 96 children during the survey phase was 7 years. The comparison group consists of 100 palliative care patients in Germany; mostly aged 50 years and older. For terminally ill patients most important areas were in decreasing order family (100%), social relations (80%), leisure time (61%), nature/animals (39%) and home/garden (30%). Although the overall indices are close between both groups, there are significant and highly correlated differences between them. Parents felt limited by their illness in being a mother or father, as they wanted to be.
Conclusion:
The involvement with SMiLE led patients to consider their coping resources. The areas relevant to terminally ill parents differed from those relevant to palliative care patients. All participants identified family as the most important factor for MiL. The results suggest that evaluating MiL can serve as a coping strategy and help terminally ill parents with minor children.
Plain language summary
Background: Caring for seriously ill patients with young children can be very stressful. The quality of life depends on meaning in life. No studies were found that focus on the needs of this patients. Objectives: The aim was to explore similarities and differences between seriously ill parents with young children and palliative care patients in Germany to find the best way to support them. Methods: The Meaning in Life questions were used to find this out. Two researchers asked seriously ill parents about different things that make their lives meaningful. The researchers then compared the results with data from other seriously ill patients in need of palliative care. In Germany, 54 seriously ill parents with young children were interviewed between February 2017 and September 2020. The children were usually seven years old. The compared group consisted of 100 palliative care patients and was mostly older than 49 years. For seriously ill patients most important were family, social relations, leisure time, nature/animals, and home/garden. The values seemed similar, but there are clear differences between the groups. Parents felt their illness limited them in being a mother or a father. Conclusion: The questions helped patients helped to remember meaning in life and set goals. The things that mattered to seriously ill parents were different from those that mattered to palliative care patients. All participants said that family was the most important thing for meaning in life. The results show that thinking about meaning in life can help.
Keywords
Background
According to Müller
Overall biographical work as a non-therapeutical intervention shows positive effects on depression, well-being and quality of life.3–5 The Meaning Making Model, proposed by Park,
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distinguishes between meaning-making and meanings-made. Meaning-making is defined as the understanding of a stressor as appraised meaning and its incorporation into a global meaning system. Meaning-made was defined as growth, life meaningfulness and reduced inconsistency of just-world beliefs. They assess the presence of and search for meaning, ask for meaning in crisis, or sources of meaning-making, and meaningful activities.
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Based on this approach, several research results indicate an impact on psychological distress. In addition, findings among others led to an evaluation of meaning-making intervention with aspects of life priorities and aim to foster coping and mastery of illness.7–10 Many assessment instruments take these categories into account. Fegg
In gerontology, geriatrics and palliative medicine, healthcare staff are presented with patients’ life stories in the context of care.
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During an advanced serious illness, individuals may re-evaluate their priorities in response to the situation. This includes to questions about the meaning and satisfaction of one’s own life.
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The fact that young children are left behind can be emotionally challenging for some healthcare professionals, making it difficult to accompany them. The study by Müller
To provide a research-based intervention for vulnerable terminally ill young patients with minor children, it was necessary to identify a suitable instrument for determining Meaning in Life (MiL). Especially, since there is no available data on this group in Germany, we have selected the instrument by Fegg
Methods
Study population and recruitment process
Study inclusion criteria were (1) patients diagnosed with life-limiting disease, (2) fluent in the German language, (3) 18 years of age or older and (4) having at least one child younger than 18 years. Exclusion criterion was psychiatric impairment such as dementia, psychosis, severe depression or diagnosed personality disorder.
In 2017, the patient recruitment began at a clinic in in Bonn, Germany. Initially, participants who meet the study inclusion criteria were recruited by a social worker, a nurse or a psycho-oncologist with research training. As the main aim of the project is to create an audiobook for bereaved children, it quickly attracted considerable media attention, leading to patients in North Rhine-Westphalia approaching the project group and asking to be involved. Consequently, the sampling is non-representative and purposive, with a high degree of self-selection bias. Inclusion criteria were checked by two researchers. Patients were enrolled after giving written informed consent and were asked signing a self-disclosure form about their medical history.
Data collection methods and research design
All participants were asked about their state of health to determine whether the interview could take place before the question about the MiL was asked. In this pilot study, SMiLE was assessed twice per respondent: before and after the audiobook recording. Although it is a longitudinal study, only the data from the first SMiLE assessment (pre-intervention) is analysed and compared in this study, as the first responses as well as the intervention may influence the response behaviour in the second SMiLE assessment. Additionally, the first survey corresponds to an uninfluenced response behaviour in palliative patients, as it was elicited by Fegg
For all patients and researchers, psychological counselling was offered to address issues of emotional distress, fear, anger or other emotions. None of the interviewed patients was treated by members of the recruitment or interviewer team.
Measure
The SMiLE was used as a paper-pencil test. In SMiLE, the participants indicate areas that provide meaning to their lives in their current situation. The participants nominate individual items from three to seven areas (
‘Please nominate 3–7 areas that give meaning to your life, regardless of how satisfied or unsatisfied you are with these areas at the moment. The order of your answers is not important’.
‘Please rate how satisfied or unsatisfied you are with each nominated area. That is, how much – positively or negatively – the area affects your total meaning in life’.
‘Please rate how important each area is for your total meaning in life. Try to distinguish between the areas as best possible by considering all numbers’. 15
In line with Feggs’ definitions of terms, open-ended responses were classified into their respective categories. 16 Several parents used family and children as synonymous. Following the advice of Fegg, we put both items in the category family.
Analysis
First, two researchers assigned the items provided by the participants according to Fegg
“Secondly, the Index of Satisfaction (IoS) indicates the mean satisfaction or dissatisfaction with the individual MiL areas (range 0-100, with higher scores reflecting higher satisfaction). To obtain a clear index varying from 0-100 the satisfaction ratings are recalculated (
Third, “the Index of Weighting (IoW) indicates the mean weighting of MiL areas (range 0–100, with higher scores reflecting higher weights).”
Finally, “in the total SMiLE index (Index of Weighted Satisfaction; IoWS), the ratings for importance and satisfaction are combined (range 0–100, with higher scores reflecting higher MiL).”
Levels and weight assigned to particular areas are independent and can change independently. A person may be satisfied in a particular area but assign little importance to it. Other areas may be described at a high level of both importance and satisfaction. An area that is going worse but of little importance will have less implication for the individual MiL. A very important area that is going badly has a higher impact on the person. This impact is reflected in the IoWS.11,15
Considering the findings of Tomás-Sábado
Results
Our survey was carried out between February 2017 and September 2020. Fifty-eight patients signed an informed consent and four patients dropped out due to death. The remaining respondents were not representative as they were largely self-selected. Finally, 54 terminally ill parent with minor children completed the SMiLE questionnaire at least once, 13 men and 41 women. The average age was 43. Most of them were married (
Sociodemographic characteristics of terminally ill parents with minor children.
Terminally ill parents with minor children, own data,
Palliative care patients, data from Fegg
NA, not available.
One hundred patients in palliative care were surveyed between 2005 and 2007 in the study by Fegg
SMiLE – Descriptive comparison between groups
Figure 1 illustrates that family is highly important for all terminally ill parent and 80% of palliative care patients. Partner or partnership is mentioned separately by 30% of terminally ill parent and 50% of palliative care patients. There are also large differences in the proportions for social relationships, with 80% of terminally ill parent and 43% of palliative care patients, as well as minor differences in the importance of leisure time, which is mentioned by 61% of terminally ill parent compared to 55% of palliative care patients. Further differences between these groups exist in the areas of religion/spirituality (11% of terminally ill parent and respectively 28% of palliative care patients), finances (0% and 6%, respectively), home/gardening (30% and 14%, respectively). Health as meaningful in life is mentioned by 4% of terminally ill parent and 31% of palliative care patients. There were no differences between the two (39% each) in the nature/animals category.

Comparison between terminally ill with parents with minor children and palliative care patients (%).
The differences between the participant groups are significant and very strongly correlated with family (Phi = −0.333;
A comparison of SMiLE scores shows similarities between groups (Table 2). Even though the SMiLE scores for the group in need of palliative care are very close to each other, there are also differences in the frequencies of individual listed MiL categories (Figure 1). Overall, we see satisfaction scores are smaller in parents with young children and palliative care patients than in representative samples. The satisfaction category is smaller in parents with young children (3.7%) compared to palliative care parents (5.3%). This might be due to concentration on the children and deny of selfish needs. The results of the independent
Comparison of means ± standard deviations (
To facilitate comparison, all indices were standardised and range from 0 to 100. (0 = low to 100 = high). IoW = Index of Weighting (IoW) indicates the mean weighting of Meaning in Life domains; IoS = Index of Satisfaction (IoS) mean satisfaction or dissatisfaction with the individual MiL indicates; IoWS = Index of Weighted Satisfaction.
Terminally ill parents with minor children, own data,
Palliative care patients, data from Fegg et al. Survey,
Having a proactive conversation about the MiL led terminally ill parents to reflect and make spontaneous statements, which were recorded in writing. The analysis of field notes taken during the evaluation of the SMiLE showed a new awareness of resources as well as high level of satisfaction with their role as father or mother. A majority of parents found MiL in spending quality time (social relations; leisure time; home/garden; nature/animals) with their children. The presenting quotes give a little insight:
Source: Field notes, own data,
Discussion
Biographical interventions have been studied as an initial therapy for seriously ill patients.4–6,12,13 The ‘Schedule of Meaning in Life’ by Fegg
By examining specific areas related to different groups, patient-centred needs can be better addressed. This is particularly important as terminally ill parents of young children show significant differences from palliative care patients in terms of MiL. The paramount role of parenting seems to shift priorities to social and family life, spending time at home and in nature. The focus is on the young children and therefore partnership may not be mentioned as often as in palliative care or seen to be mentioned with the field family.
In their conclusions, Bernard
Sprangers and Schwartz
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described a change in values, a recalibration and a reconceptualization of the trajectory as a ‘response shift’. Therefore, an interview guide can provide valuable insights into the domains of MiL, which can be used to develop comprehensive individual care plans. The inclusion of MIL, which Bernard
In the context of care, SMiLE appears to be a good elicitation instrument for sorting and ranking patients’ end-of-life priorities in clinical practice. Its use can save time, give a voice to the less talkative, be easily embedded in subsequent treatment plans and set processes in motion in a targeted way.
In our project, we gave terminally ill parents the opportunity to record their personal life stories in the form of an audiobook as a legacy for their children. In this way, they provide a self-authored reminiscence to be remembered as they wish beyond their own death. Guiding and actively developing interventions together as a measure of coping strategies helps patients, carers and healthcare staff to perceive the situation of terminally ill parents with young children as less stressful. 12
Study limitations
Our sample was small and not representative. Small sample sizes effect confidence intervals and statistical power analysis. As awareness increased, the sample size could have been increased, which would have increased the statistical power, but our practical constraints, such as no funding, scarce staff resources and self-selection bias, did not allow this as voluntary enquiries predominated over time. In addition, the pilot study focused on the sensitive and time-consuming process of creating the audio book for the bereaved child(ren). Thus, the resource of time and the associated ethical responsibility to each individual participant outweighed the objective large sample size or large number of participants. Assignment to categories leaves room for interpretation though we discussed every single item in depth. It should also be noted that the comparison data is with an earlier cohort in 2005–2007, as no new data is known to be available in Germany.
In addition to the limitations to the survey instrument listed by Fegg
Conclusion
The MiL domains relevant to terminally ill parents with minor children differed in the assessments given by patients receiving palliative care. The results suggest that assessing MiL is a coping strategy and helps to guide appropriate interventions for terminally ill parents with young children. The most important domain for MiL was family, which was mentioned most frequently by both groups.
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