Restricted accessResearch articleFirst published online 2021-1
The Hidden Cost of Cancer: The Siblings’ Story,A Mother’s Narrative on How Three of Her Children Journeyed Through Their 14-Year-Old Sister’s 9-Month Journey From Ill Heath to Death and Beyond
The siblings of children diagnosed with cancer can get lost in the cancer journey. Through a mother’s eyes, this article examines the issues faced by three siblings when their teenage sister is diagnosed with and dies of cancer. It focuses on the impact their sister’s illness has on their educational, social, emotional, and communication skills. Each sibling not only had their own unique set of needs, but this article argues that the term cancer survivor should also be extended to the siblings as they comprise an intrinsic part of the family’s cancer journey. The article calls on professionals to adopt a holistic approach to reduce the impact that childhood cancer has on the siblings, and it highlights the far-reaching consequences of not properly supporting the siblings during this time.
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