Bereaved adolescents' evaluations of the helpfulness of support-intended statements: Associations with person centeredness and demographic,personality,and contextual factors

Abstract

Currently, there is a lack of reliable methods for assessing how bereaved adolescents perceive the informal support they receive. This study provides methodological refinements in, and a theoretical grounding for, a recently developed measure designed to distinguish support efforts that bereaved adolescents find helpful versus harmful. Participants (114 bereaved adolescents) completed the Support Intended Statement Survey (SISS), which assessed the perceived helpfulness of 14 strategies intended to comfort the bereaved. These 14 strategies were coded for the degree of person centeredness they manifested. Level of strategy person centeredness was strongly correlated with perceived strategy helpfulness. Reported helpfulness of the strategies varied substantially as a function of participants' general levels of perceived support availability, but varied less as a function of demographic and contextual factors.

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adolescence bereavement comfort coping assistance grief perceived support availability social support

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