Being in a relationship with someone engaging in nonsuicidal self-injury (NSSI) can be a stressful experience. Authors have underscored the multifaceted and overwhelmingly negative emotional experiences of individuals in these relationships. However, few researchers have explored the ways in which such individuals cope with these adverse emotional experiences. In the current study, we investigated the coping strategies used by 55 participants who were in relationships with individuals currently engaging in NSSI. A coping style characterized by a focus on emotional expression was associated with increased stress. We discuss implications for counselors working with individuals in relationships with those facing NSSI.
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