Exhausted Parents Experience of Anger: The Relationship Between Anger and Burnout

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The purpose of this study was to examine the relationship between anger and burnout among parents (N =226). The results revealed burnout contrast and exhaustion predicted anger experience, and burnout contrast also predicted anger expression. The authors discuss the limitations of the study and implications for counseling research and practice.

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anger parents burnout emotion regulation counseling

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