Due to the high prevalence of relationship betrayal in America, it is not surprising that this issue presents in marriage, couples, and family counseling. However, the role of religion and spirituality has not been explored as to its influence on the experience of relationship betrayal by partners in the couple system. In this article, these issues are explored in the context of couples counseling, and a case illustration is provided.
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