Grandparents and Adult Grandchildren: What Do They Do for One Another?

Abstract

This article reports findings from a study in which the functional exchange of services, emotional (expressive) and tangible (instrumental) between grandparents and adult grandchildren were examined. The reciprocal (equivalent) and nonreciprocal (excessive giving or receiving) exchange of services was measured by the frequency of exchange and perception of potential support between the dyad. Noninstitutionalized Jewish grandparents (118, 65+ years of age) with at least one adult grandchild (18+ years of age) were randomly selected from an apartment house in Miami Beach. The results showed that the majority of grandparent-adult grandchild relationships are not reciprocal in either expressive or instrumental support. Grandparents' perception of reciprocity is that they receive more than they give. Social-work knowledge of functional exchange between this dyad may strengthen the social-support network of the elderly.

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