This article discusses using humor, art, and music with dying and bereaved children. All forms of artistic expression may be used to provide social support for children, to foster positive attitudes, and to allow for expression of emotions and grief. Children often lack verbal skills. Artistic expression allows the expression of thoughts and feelings in a safe environment. Many forms of artistic expression are available. Humor, art, and music are used as examples of what might be used to aid children.
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