The authors review the literature on the development of the marital dyad during the stepfamily transition. Conflicting loyalties in the marital dyad, stepparent expectations and roles, stepfamily cohesion, and boundary ambiguity are examined. Recommendations for reducing stress on the married couple are made.
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