People are healthier and happier when they have intimates who care about and for them. But they also do better when they know many different people casually.
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CoserRose Laub. “The Complexity of Roles as a Seedbed of Individual Autonomy.” Pp. 237–62 in CoserLouis A. (ed.), The Idea of Social Structure: Papers in Honor of Robert K. Merton.New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, 1975. Explains why acquaintance variety should lead to a greater sense of control over one's life and to more sophisticated language and more abstract thinking as well.
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EricksonBonnie H.“Culture, Class, and Connections.”American Journal of Sociology102 (1996): 217–51. Shows that knowing many kinds of people goes with knowing a lot about many kinds of culture—and how knowing about culture matters at work.
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FischerClaude S.To Dwell Among Friends.Berkeley: University of California Press, 1982. Strong ties matter too. This book describes their benefits and the kinds of people who benefit more or less.
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GranovetterMark. “The Strength of Weak Ties.”American Journal of Sociology78 (1973): 1360–80. Enormously influential, this essay concerns the advantages of acquaintances both for individuals and for communities.
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LinNan. “Social Networks and Status Attainment.”Annual Review of Sociology25 (1999): 467–87. Authoritative review of research on networks and getting a job. It includes references to the Albany, East Germany, and China studies discussed in this article.
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LinNanCookKarenBurtRonald S. (eds.). Social Capital: Theory and Research.New York: Aldine de Gruyter, 2001. Includes a number of recent, high quality theoretical discussions and research reports concerning the benefits of social networks, including a chapter on the Toronto security industry study.
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WellmanBarry (ed.). Networks in the Global Village.Boulder, Colorado: Westview, 1999. A wide-ranging collection of studies on strong ties and weak ties, around the world and on the Internet.