Negotiating bride price in contemporary China: Gender identities,community norms,and education effects in marriage practices

Abstract

Amid declining marriage rates in China, bride price has become a key source of strain in marriage formation. While earlier studies have examined its economic and cultural dimensions, less is known about how migrant workers experience the negotiation of bride price as they move between rural traditions and urban influences. Drawing on 86 in-depth interviews with rural-to-urban migrants from Henan, we analyzed bride price as a site of identity work shaped by gender expectations, community norms, and educational background. We show that negotiations are rarely individual endeavors: families act as gatekeepers who enforce, reinterpret, and sometimes soften expectations, while community norms regulate both the amounts and procedures through gossip and moral judgment. Migration appeared to heighten these dynamics by exposing couples to conflicting regional standards, which intensified identity tensions and marital strain. At the same time, higher education expanded migrants’ repertoires for negotiating and reframing obligations, allowing some to reinterpret traditional practices without overt rejection. By highlighting the micro-processes of negotiation among migrants and their spillover into marital relationships, this study advances understanding of bride price not only as a financial burden or cultural symbol but as a deeply gendered practice shaped by educational differences and identity work.