Re-membering is the combination of remembering and bringing something back into membership. Addressing spiritual care for gun-violence requires us to remember our past while allowing the remnants of violence to remake us—our social norms around violence. With collective ownership of our shared context of violence we can reframe our obligation: care is for the community and the social milieu not just for the individual victim or victimizer.
WhiteM. (1989). Saying hullo again: The incorporation of the lost relationship in the resolution of grief. Selected papers by Michael White, pp. 29–36. Dulwhich Centre Publications.