The primary objective of this article is to present the merits of the case for the contribution made by divorce mediation to the safety, equity, and human agency concerns of separating women. Research findings indicate that divorce mediation makes a greater contribution toward achieving these outcomes than either lawyer negotiations or court adjudication. The article ends with a segment on what men can do to promote women's safety.
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