This review proposes the use of forgiveness as a therapeutic option in addressing individual, relational, and marital distress. The examination begins with a brief account of recent theories and models of forgiveness followed by the findings of empirical studies on forgiveness as it is employed in different relational contexts, such as anger, blame, guilt, and infidelity. Research on the communication of forgiveness in relationships, as well as the long-term implications of using forgiveness in relationships, is discussed. Explanations of the implications of the therapeutic use of forgiveness for individual and family counselors conclude this literature review.
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