Rituals allow for multiple meanings and the "trying on for size" of new ways of understanding and doing things. They are also important mechanisms for establishing group identity, clarifying boundaries and roles, creating stability in times of change, expressing and containing strong emotions, healing pains, and providing continuity between past, present, and future. Rituals are thus an important part of family living.
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