Motherhood is a time of significant change for a woman. Once a woman enters motherhood, she must then navigate her mothering role within the societal expectation of intensive mothering. Intensive mothering prescribes the right way to be a mother which places unrealistic standards on mothers, which can lead to negative emotional reactions. A better understanding of intensive mothering may aid in mothers’ ability to navigate the unrealistic expectations. This study sampled 525 mothers within the United States and provided insight regarding differences in intensive parenting attitudes across various demographic characteristics. The findings demonstrate differences in intensive parenting attitudes across some mother characteristics; however, there were no differences found across many characteristics indicating the pervasiveness of intensive mothering beliefs among women regardless of their personal characteristics.
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