Internet infidelity provides a new challenge to couples seeking to establish and maintain both emotional and physical intimacy. The selected case demonstrates one male marital partner's struggle with intimacy and emotional expression as well as his exploration into the world of cybersex and infidelity. Implications for therapeutic interventions are discussed.
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