Childhood loneliness may be an enduring condition of emotional distress that is often overlooked or misunderstood. In this article, the relationship between a lonely child’s early family experiences and subsequent peer interactions is explored. Interventions aimed at addressing childhood loneliness within the family and school are offered.
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