The author explores the concerns of lesbian mothers and their partners. Twenty-eight lesbian couples who were raising children participated in structured interviews. Results suggested that lesbian parents and co-parents are deeply committed to creating strong families. The primary concern of parents related to worry about potential social difficulties for their children. The diverse ways the women came to motherhood illustrate the trend toward alternative insemination and adoption within the lesbian community. Implications for practice are offered.
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