The authors seek to heighten therapists' awareness of the possibility of childhood sexual abuse as a contributing but often unrecognized factor in couple dysfunction. Guidelines are given for detecting an abuse history in one or both members of a couple when it is not disclosed by the partners. The authors also present techniques for introducing and integrating the issue of sexual abuse into ongoing therapy.
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