A substantial amount of literature discusses parental adjustment to the birth of a handicapped child. However, little has been written about this process from the perspective of family-systems theory. The author examines the usefulness of the family-systems perspective in understanding parents' adaptation to a disabled child, particularly family theorists' emphasis on degrees of connectedness and inter generational issues. Case examples are provided.
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