Despite the widely recognized benefits of including young children in family therapy, most often they are excluded from it. The author explores this contradiction and describes a model for working with families with young children. The approach draws on psychodynamic and systems thinking, uses direct and indirect approaches to children in the context of an awareness of children's normal developmental phases, and takes a pragmatic approach to parenting.
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