Soul Mate

Abstract

This article describes an “advanced practice” registered nurse’s skill in using multiple theoretical frameworks to make meaning of her severely developmentally disabled son’s untimely death. Aspects of religion, spirituality, and philosophy are presented plus how related practices, such as used within Alcoholics Anonymous, are incorporated into everyday life are referenced. Creating unique rituals and ceremonies demonstrates the power of the mind as a partner in the healing process when grief seems insurmountable. This article, titled “Soul Mate” discusses how individuals create their own healing narratives when confronted with grief and tragedy. Nursing interventions, sensitive to this process, support and promote the grief process. Eliciting, recognizing, and accepting a patient’s unique self-made rituals and ceremonies as they cope with a beloved’s death and dying enhances their nursing interventions.