Abstract
Physical dating violence (DV) is a widespread problem among adolescents. A growing body of literature demonstrates that physical DV often occurs during disagreements when partners use destructive conflict management strategies, such as conflict engagement (e.g., losing control, criticizing) or withdrawal (e.g., acting cold, being distant). However, little is known regarding how the individual daily variability on the use of destructive conflict management strategies can influence the probability of perpetrating day-to-day physical DV, especially if the other partner is also perceived as using destructive behaviors. Using an intensive longitudinal approach, the current study first aimed to examine the daily associations between the use of various conflict management strategies and physical DV perpetration in adolescent dating relationships. A second objective was to investigate if perceived partner’s conflict behaviors moderated the relation between self-reported conflict management strategies and day-to-day physical DV perpetration. A sample of 216 adolescents (
Introduction
Early dating relationships not only offer opportunities for the development of identity and intimacy but also frequently become a central source of support and affection for adolescents (Furman et al., 2002). However, these relationships often come with their share of struggles and difficulties, especially regarding jealousy, trust, betrayal, or neglect (Fernet et al., 2016; McIsaac et al., 2008). Compared to romantic relationships in adulthood, teens report higher levels of conflictual interactions in their dating relationships (Lantagne & Furman, 2017). Difficulties in solving these interactions have been associated with the escalation of conflicts, which in return can lead to the occurrence of violent behaviors (De La Rue et al., 2017; Gonzalez-Mendez et al., 2018). Scholarly reports indicate that rates of dating violence (DV) are alarmingly high during adolescence (Taylor & Mumford, 2016; Wincentak et al., 2016). Conducted among a representative sample of adolescents from the province of Quebec, results from the Youths’ Romantic Relationships Survey indicated that 15% of adolescents reported being physically victimized by a dating partner in the past year (Hébert et al., 2017). As for perpetration, nationally available data revealed similar rates, with 18% of adolescents reporting having perpetrated physical DV towards a dating partner (Ybarra et al., 2016). Moreover, experiencing physical DV increases the likelihood of being involved in recurrent abusive relationships that may persist into adulthood (Cui et al., 2013; Taylor et al., 2017).
As physical DV often occurs during conflicts (Capaldi et al., 2012; Fernet et al., 2016), scholars have sought to gain a deeper understanding of conflict management processes among dating adolescents. Recent data suggests that adolescents who report perpetrating DV also describe using more destructive conflict management strategies (e.g., conflict engagement, withdrawal) over time than their non-perpetrator counterparts (Gonzalez-Mendez et al., 2018). However, no significant association for constructive conflict management strategies (e.g., compromise, collaboration) has been observed, suggesting that adolescents who report perpetrating DV do not differ from non-violent teenagers on this aspect (Gonzalez-Mendez et al., 2018). Furthermore, no significant differences were found regarding levels of care, love, and self-disclosure across violent and non-violent dating relationships (Giordano et al., 2010). These results notably suggest that positive dynamics are also observed among couples reporting the presence of DV, thus highlighting the complexity of this phenomenon. More studies are needed to improve our understanding of the dynamic processes associated with DV perpetration.
Conflict management depends on a variety of implicit factors and subjective cognitions, such as beliefs or expectations about conflict occurrence and its outcomes on the relationship, as well as perceived partner’s behaviors or intents (Feiring et al., 2018; Fernández-González et al., 2019; Verhoef et al., 2019). Attribution theory suggests that negative interpretations of another individual’s behaviors might influence their reactions towards them (Flynn & Graham, 2010). A systematic review on attributions and various aggressive behaviors in adulthood reported small to medium associations between negative attributions and aggression (Tuente et al., 2019). Thus, conflict behaviors adopted by a dating partner, if perceived as hostile, might exacerbate the probability of physical DV perpetration by entitling an aggressive response (Anderson & Bushman, 2002). Therefore, among adolescents’ daily conflicts and disagreements, it is likely that the use of destructive conflict management strategies will increase the probability of DV perpetration, especially if the partner is also perceived as using destructive behaviors. Surprisingly, this interplay between perceptions and conflict behaviors in relation to adolescent physical DV perpetration has yet been explored.
The high prevalence and the deleterious consequences associated with physical DV make it an important public health problem (Burczycka & Conroy, 2018; Butchart, & Mikton, 2014; Wincentak et al., 2016). However, despite significant advances in the field, much of the prior work remains cross-sectional, limiting our understanding of how DV arises over time. Dating partners who use severe forms of DV do not engage in violent behaviors every time a disagreement occurs in their relationship (Bartholomew et al., 2015; Finkel, 2007), suggesting that there is individual daily variability in the association between disagreements and DV. This hypothesis has yet been explored given that prior DV research has mostly relied on teen’s retrospective recall of events. Although retrospective self-report methods allow access to larger samples at a lower cost, they can be limited by memory biases, and more importantly, they preclude the exploration of the proximal factors associated with DV (Laurenceau & Bolger, 2005). In this regard, the use of daily diaries (i.e., several assessments in a short period of time) is gaining popularity in the field of social sciences research (Iida et al., 2012; Van Berkel et al., 2017). While reducing the time between the events of interest and collecting data, this method also makes it possible to examine individual’s behaviors, perceptions, and emotions in their daily context (Bolger et al., 2003; Laurenceau & Bolger, 2005). Therefore, using this innovative method could improve our understanding of micro-processes associated with conflict behaviors and DV perpetration during adolescence while considerably reducing the memory bias associated with the use of retrospective methods. Gaining a more in-depth understanding of why and when adolescents use DV is particularly relevant to inform prevention initiatives and promote healthy dating relationship behaviors among adolescents.
The Current Study
Using an intensive longitudinal approach, this study aimed to examine associations between self-reported daily conflict management strategies and day-to-day physical DV perpetration. Since conflict management depends on a variety of implicit factors and subjective perceptions, this study also aimed to investigate how perceived partner’s behaviors during daily disagreements moderate the relation between self-reported use of conflict management strategies and physical DV perpetration. By examining the interplay between one’s own behaviors and perceptions, the current study will contribute to a more dynamic investigation of the context in which conflicts escalate into violence during adolescence.
Method
Participants
The sample consisted of 216 adolescents (range = 14–19 years,
Procedure
Adolescents were recruited on a voluntary basis in high schools and colleges from the Montreal area, and through social networks (i.e., Facebook). When adolescents were recruited in educational institutions, research assistants either presented the project in classrooms or at an information booth in the schools’ common areas (e.g., cafeteria). The research procedure was presented to interested participants and written consent was obtained. When recruited online, youth were asked to leave their contact information, so research assistants could reach them and go through the same procedure with them over the phone. After consenting, adolescents were invited to fill out an initial online survey (30–45 min.). Then, for 14 consecutive days, they completed daily diaries (5 min.) sent via short message service (SMS) or e-mail. Teens were asked to complete the diaries between 8:00
Measures
Sociodemographic data.
Sociodemographic information was collected during the baseline assessment. Adolescents’ age, sex at birth and length of their current relationship were used as control variables in all subsequent analyses.
Daily conflict management strategies.
Every day, adolescents indicated if they had any disagreements with their dating partner using a single item (dichotomous yes/no response). When participants answered “yes”, they were then asked to report on the strategies used by both partners to solve the most important disagreement they had on that day. Then, a French adaptation of the Conflict Resolution Styles Inventory (Fortin et al., 2020; Kurdek, 1994) measured each of the three strategies used during that disagreement:
Daily physical DV perpetration.
Daily physical perpetration of DV was measured using four items from the physical assault subscale of the widely known Revised Conflict Tactics Scales (CTS2; Lussier, 1998; Straus et al., 1996). This scale has been used extensively in the past with various populations, including adolescents (e.g., Cascardi et al., 1999; Muñoz-Rivas et al., 2007; Nocentini et al., 2011). In order to obtain a brief daily measure of physical DV perpetration, four items (i.e., “Forcefully pushing or shoving,” “Slapping or hitting,” “Throwing items that could hurt,” and “Kicking, biting, or hair-pulling”) were selected from the physical assault subscale of the original instrument (Straus et al., 1996). These items have been previously used to successfully assess physical DV (Simon & Furman, 2010). On days in which in-person disagreements occurred, participants were asked to indicate how often they had engaged in the various violent behaviors during the disagreement. Again, a 3-point Likert scale was preferred to mirror the strategy used with the CRSI. Response choices ranged from 1 (never) to 3 (three times or more). For the present analyses, a dichotomous score was created, indicating whether participants endorsed perpetrating any of the items on that particular day. Dichotomous scores on the daily victimization subscale were used as a control variable in subsequent analyses.
Statistical Analysis
Preliminary analyses were conducted using SPSS 27. Due to the data’s hierarchical structure (i.e., days nested within individuals), a two-level model with random intercept was estimated using Mplus 8.3 (Muthén & Muthén, 2017). An essential step in intensive longitudinal analyses is to divide the data into between-person (i.e., variability in average scores between participants or inter-person differences) and within-person components (i.e., variability in each participant’s daily scores or intra-person differences) to analyze the Level-1 predictors (McNeish & Hamaker, 2020). In the current study, a two-level model with fixed and random effects (i.e., residuals) was conducted to simultaneously examine the within- and between-person main effects of self-reported conflict management strategies (i.e., conflict engagement, withdrawal and problem-solving) on physical DV perpetration. Moderation analysis with partner-perceived conflict behaviors (i.e., conflict engagement, withdrawal and problem-solving) was then conducted on the significant associations observed between conflict management strategies and physical DV perpetration.
To examine the between-person effects, self-reported conflict management strategies (Level-1 variables) were grand-mean centered by subtracting the sample’s grand mean (i.e., all measurement points across all individuals in the sample) from the average score of each participant on the Level-1 predictor over the 14 days. To examine the within-person effects, self-reported and partner-perceived conflict management strategies were person-mean centered, meaning that each participant’s average value on the Level-1 predictor and moderator across all measurement points was subtracted from their raw value at each measurement point.
All multilevel models were estimated using maximum likelihood estimator with robust standard errors (i.e., MLR) to account for non-normality of data (Lanza & Cooper, 2016) and a logit link to examine DV perpetration as a dichotomous outcome. Since the outcome variable is dichotomous at Level-1 but is considered continuous at Level-2 (i.e., aggregation of the total number of days of physical DV perpetration within days of conflict), odds ratios were calculated for the within-person main effects and for the interaction effects only (Level-1). Analyses were conducted on days in which adolescents reported having an in-person disagreement with their partner (
Results
Descriptive Statistics
Descriptive Statistics and Between-Person Correlations Among Study Variables.
Conflict Behaviors on Physical DV Perpetration
Main Effects of Self-Reported Conflict Management Strategies on Daily Physical DV Perpetration.
Moderating Role of Perceived Partner’s Conflict Behaviors
Since conflict engagement was the only self-reported strategy significantly associated with physical DV perpetration, moderation analyses were then conducted to examine the interactive effect of each perceived partner’s conflict behaviors (i.e., conflict engagement, withdrawal, and problem-solving) on the relation between self-reported conflict engagement and daily physical DV perpetration. Three independent models including one interaction term were estimated.
Interactive Effects of Self-Reported Conflict Engagement and Partner-Perceived Conflict Management Strategies on Daily Physical DV Perpetration.
The Johnson-Neyman technique (Johnson & Neyman, 1936; Preacher et al., 2006) was used to probe the interaction between self-reported partner-perceived conflict behaviors on the daily probability of physical DV perpetration. More specifically, this technique, which uses 95% confidence bands around the simple slope to determine the region of significance across the full range of conditional values of the moderator, was used to estimate the specific value of the moderator at which the simple slope is significantly different from 0 (i.e., at which the interactive effect becomes significant). Graphs showing the region of significance for each interaction are provided as Supplemental Material. The specific value of the moderator was then used to plot the simple slopes for high and low levels (+/–2
Simple Slopes of the Interaction Between Self-Reported and Partner-Perceived Conflict Engagement on the Probability of Physical DV Perpetration.
Simple Slopes of the Interaction Between Self-Reported Conflict Engagement and Partner-Perceived Withdrawal on the Probability of Physical DV Perpetration.
Discussion
This study aimed to contribute to a more dynamic investigation on the contexts in which daily disagreements escalate into physical violence during adolescence. More specifically, this study examined the distinct contribution of self-reported conflict engagement, withdrawal, and problem-solving strategies as well as perceived partner conflict behaviors in association with daily physical DV perpetration. Results of this study add depth to existing knowledge on the link between destructive conflict management strategies and violence in adolescence as it is, to our knowledge, the first investigation to examine how conflict behaviors relate to physical abuse in adolescent dating relationships using an intensive longitudinal approach.
Daily reports indicated that disagreements with a dating partner occurred on 19.5% of days (
Consistent with study hypotheses, we found that self-reported use of conflict engagement significantly heightened the likelihood of adolescents perpetrating physical DV over the 14 days. Overall, this suggests that adolescents who use higher levels of conflict engagement than their peers have an increased risk of perpetrating physical DV. Furthermore, the within-person association of conflict engagement and physical DV suggests that on days in which adolescents increased their own level of conflict engagement, the probability of resorting to violent behaviors also rises. As such, in addition to whether adolescents generally use high or low levels of conflict engagement, their daily variations in conflict management seem to be of great interest in understanding the context in which teen DV occurs. This suggests that even adolescents who do not frequently resort to conflict engagement strategies could be at risk of perpetrating physical DV on days they use more conflict engagement than what they usually do.
Results from the interactions further suggest an interrelation between both partner’s use of conflict engagement strategies. Evidence from the current study revealed that the probability of perpetrating physical DV was significantly higher when adolescents used conflict engagement while also perceiving their partner as using conflictual behaviors. This result gives us a powerful insight into the daily context in which conflict escalation might lead to aggression. That is, perceiving both oneself and one’s partner as actively and negatively engaging in an argument significantly increases the probability of conflict escalating into physical DV, thus suggesting a pattern of conflict escalation. This is consistent with results from prior cross-sectional research, which found an association between the reciprocal use of conflict engagement and the occurrence of abuse in adult couples (Bonache et al., 2019).
Contrary to expectations, no significant associations were found regarding one’s own use of withdrawal strategies, therefore suggesting that trying to avoid daily disagreements may not be associated with physical DV perpetration. This is somewhat surprising considering that previous studies showed that the withdrawal subscale of the Conflict Resolution Styles Inventory (Kurdek, 1994) was useful in distinguishing between adolescents involved in a violent relationship (Bonache et al., 2016). There are several possible explanations for this result. In the study conducted by Bonache et al. (2016), conflict management strategies and DV were assessed over the past 12 months, rather than over the past 24 hours. Given such a long reference period, it is possible that withdrawal and physical DV behaviors did not occur simultaneously. Therefore, Bonache et al.’s (2016) results might reflect a more distal communication pattern in which DV perpetration is used as a last resort to preserve one’s intimacy against a pressuring partner. Moreover, in their study, both psychological and physical DV were assessed and used as one global measure of DV, whereas only physical DV was examined in the current study. As such, withdrawal behaviors could be significantly associated with the use of psychological rather than physical DV.
On the other hand, results from the current study showed an interaction between self-reported conflict engagement and perceived partner’s withdrawal, suggesting that the probability of physical DV perpetration was significantly higher on days in which adolescents reported engaging negatively in a disagreement while perceiving their partner as shutting down from the argument. Hence suggesting the presence of a demand/withdraw communication pattern in which one partner criticizes and pressures the other to engage in the disagreement while the other partner withdraws, stays silent and defensive, or refuses to further discuss (Christensen & Heavey, 1990). This pattern has been widely documented in adult intimate relationships (Holley et al., 2010; Schrodt et al., 2014) and has been associated with psychological distress and the occurrence of violent behaviors (Eldridge et al., 2007; Fournier et al., 2011). Consistent with prior research, evidence from the current study supports the existence of a demand/withdraw communication pattern among adolescent dating relationships. As few studies have examined this pattern in dating relationships, future research is needed to replicate this finding.
Adolescents from our sample indicated using constructive conflict management strategies in almost every disagreement they reported. This is consistent with prior findings suggesting that in order to preserve their relationships, adolescents tend to use more constructive strategies to manage disagreements with their dating partner than with their friends (Laursen et al., 2001). Problem-solving strategies were expected to reduce the daily probability of physical DV perpetration, but no significant associations were observed. Perceived partner’s constructive strategies were also examined as moderators between self-reported conflict engagement and physical DV perpetration. Again, no significant effects were observed. The lack of variability in the sample’s score of problem-solving strategies may explain the absence of significant association with physical DV perpetration. This is consistent with previous work on DV in which adolescents who reported perpetrating DV did not differ from their non-violent counterparts regarding the use of constructive conflict management strategies (Gonzalez-Mendez et al., 2018). The present findings notably suggest that regardless of whether or not adolescents use constructive strategies to manage disagreements with their dating partner, using destructive conflict behaviors is the crucial element that significantly increases their chances of perpetrating DV (Gonzalez-Mendez et al., 2018; Smith-Darden et al., 2017). Moreover, the fact that couples disclosing the presence of DV also report using constructive strategies to manage conflicts, as well as high levels of care, love, and self-disclosure in their relationship (Giordano et al., 2010) might make the decisional process of ending an abusive relationship hard for adolescents. Current results do not support the idea that constructive strategies serve as a protective factor for daily physical DV perpetration, yet they highlight the complexity of this phenomenon during adolescence.
By providing evidence from an adolescent sample, the current findings enhance our comprehension of conflict management and DV perpetration within an understudied population who have been more difficult to engage in research projects. Results are largely consistent with empirical reports with adult and young adult samples (Bonache et al., 2019) and support the presence of various communication patterns in adolescents couples, namely the conflict escalation and the demand/withdraw patterns. The diverse constitution of the sample that included high ratio of boys (40%) and ethnocultural diversity (i.e., 30% reporting that their parents had an ethnocultural affiliation other than Canadian) also has implications for diversity as it allows for a greater generalization of the results among adolescent dating relationships.
Still, these conclusions should be considered in light of some limitations. As this study aimed to examine the role of perceptions regarding physical DV perpetration, the respondent’s perceptions were not matched with the actual behaviors adopted by their partner. Therefore, using dyadic reports in future research would be interesting to compare the effect of one’s perception versus the behaviors reported by the other partner. Dyadic reports may also provide more accurate data on the behaviors adopted by both partners and offer meaningful information on the conflict management process at play among adolescent couples. Another important limitation concerns the assessment of DV. In the current study, only physical DV perpetration was assessed within in-person disagreements. Even if DV often occurs during conflicts (Capaldi et al., 2012), other forms of DV, such as sexual and psychological DV, might happen in other contexts which were not considered in the present study. Sexual and psychological DV are recognized as quite common in first dating relationships (Hébert et al., 2017, 2019). As such, it would be useful for future studies to examine a broader array of contexts and violent behaviors. Further, because of the low frequency of in-person conflicts, the within-person level included only a small number of observations (i.e., a mean of 2.5 observations per participant). Power analysis revealed that the models were adequately powered, but considering the rare frequency of daily physical DV perpetration (i.e., 22 violent events out of 434 in-person conflicts), future studies assessing adolescent samples over a longer period of time are needed to replicate the current findings.
Moreover, in order to promote the development of healthy relationships from adolescence, focus also needs to be directed on protective factors. As the current results did not support the hypothesis that constructive strategies may act as a buffer between self-reported conflict engagement and physical DV perpetration, future studies should aim at identifying daily protective factors. Finally, one major limitation of the current study is that sex differences were not examined. Based on results from previous studies (Bonache et al., 2017), it is possible to hypothesize that a three-way interaction between sex, self-reported, and perceived-partner destructive conflict management strategies on physical DV perpetration would have yielded significant results. Yet, the sample size was not sufficient to test such an interaction since it has been demonstrated that the number of observations required for testing a three-way interaction has to be four times as large as what is required for testing a two-way interaction (Heo et al., 2014). Further studies are clearly needed to better understand the differences between boys and girls during daily disagreements and should include adolescents from sexually diverse backgrounds.
Implications and Conclusion
Gaining an in-depth understanding of why and when adolescents adopt violent behaviors undoubtedly helps to prevent conflict escalation into DV. Since within-individual variations in the use of conflictual strategies were associated with physical DV, meaning that using higher levels of conflict engagement than one’s own average increases the probability of perpetrating physical DV, results from the present study support the need for universal DV prevention initiatives in which all adolescents are targeted for intervention. Evidence from the present study also highlights that both conflict behaviors and perceptions are associated with daily perpetration of physical DV during adolescence. By increasing adolescent’s awareness of their own behaviors and perceptions during daily interactions with their dating partner, this new knowledge can help adolescents recognize situations in which they are at higher risk of using physical DV. Findings from the present study yield new insights on the daily context in which conflicts escalate into DV by improving our understanding of the dynamic processes associated with DV perpetration. As such, using these findings to inform future prevention initiatives will provide means to sustain positive and healthy dating relationships in adolescents.
Footnotes
Declaration of Conflicting Interests
Funding
The author(s) disclosed receipt of the following financial support for the research and/or authorship of this article: This research was supported by a grant from the SSHRC (#430-2017-01008) awarded to Alison Paradis. The authors wish to thank adolescents who participated to this project and partner organizations.
