This article presents a study of the experiences of 20 battered Israeli
women in the process of reaching the turning point in their experience
of abuse—the point at which they refused to live with violence and
took active steps to stop it while living with the perpetrators. The
process needs to be understood as a series of losses on the personal and
interpersonal levels that, taken together, lead to a total change in the
women's meaning systems.
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