23.Therefore, the main policy issues regarding mothers who were never married or are no longer married to the fathers are not so much whether and how to oblige the putative fathers to marry the mothers and/or support the fatherless children. Instead, the main issues are how the obligation of fathers and mothers to support their children has to be redefined after a separation or a divorce, how this obligation can be enforced, and whether and how the rights and duties of the stepparents can be defined in relation to those of parents. Nevertheless, it appears that the same paradigms that were applicable to fatherless children and unmarried mothers can, in a slightly reframed way, also construct social issues and policies concerning "demarried" (lone) parents and children with two separated parents (whether formerly married or not)-not the least reason being that unmarried motherhood is often used as a metonym of lone motherhood, which is also generally used itself as a metonym of lone parenthood. In times of demarriage, Christian angelism is reframed as an "anti-demarriage" paradigm: demarriage itself enters into the sphere of supreme evil, where it takes its place alongside sex and procreation outside marriage, contraception, abortion, and infanticide; as a consequence, all the policies and rules that can be seen as incentives to divorce or cohabitate also enter the sphere of supreme evil. Malthusian angelism becomes reframed as an "anti-dependency" paradigm: the unmarried people who become parents without having the means or the will to support the children and who lay the burden of these children on society are now joined in the sphere of supreme evil by parents who have decided to separate or divorce, even though they are unable to support the lone-parent household by themselves, and by the "absent" parents who have remarried or repartnered, thus taking on new responsibilities for stepchildren and/or new children of their own without being able to afford the expenses of two households. The healthy citizen paradigm now becomes an "antipoverty/inequality" paradigm: since infant mortality is not much of an issue anymore, the main concern within the framework of the healthy citizen paradigm has moved from the saving of babies to the higher risks of poverty of the households headed by lone parents, especially by lone mothers. The supreme evil sphere of this paradigm now consists of the strain on human resources that stems from the social inequalities between children according to their family situation, as well as of the handicaps and inequalities that children and parents, especially mothers, living in such households face (e.g., health and education). The proper citizen paradigm undergoes only little change. Since it is crucially concerned with the risks of personality disorders and antisocial behavior stemming not only from the absence of a father but also from the absence of the father, the current speeding up of demarriage has not necessitated any great changes in it. And since there is no agreement within the paradigm about what are the worse or the lesser evils-the death of the father, the absence of a father, the absence of a/the (step)father within the household, the absence of relationships with the father, the bad relationships with the father, or even the presence of a bad (step)father within the household-it has no clear answer as to whether policy should distinguish between the different types of lone mothers' households. 24. As the child psychiatrist Fernand Davos has remarked, "Reforming the law on accouchement sous X would be really dangerous. . . . Suppressing the secrecy of origins would be dangerous for children (born `under X'). Reality is unfortunately more sordid (than their `family romance'). Even when abandonment does not ensue from incest, it is inevitably the outcome of a set of insufficiencies; in money, family and education, of course, but also in intelligence and affectivity. Meeting this truth is far more painful than the persistence of doubt." "La vérité, plus dure que le secret," Libération, May 26, 2000.