The repression and disavowal of self-affirming anger is a defense against humiliation and the loss of contactful relationship. Feeling shame and the hiding of oneself are additional defenses employed to maintain relationships. Self-righteous anger is also a defense used to avoid the pain of loss of contactful relationships. Therapy consists of working through the layers of defenses and mourning the original loss of contact.
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