Abstract
This article takes issue with a frequent assumption in TA—that time is structured mostly in terms of strokes. Basic concepts of Existential Pattern Theory and Therapy (EPT) are summarized to demonstrate that we are influenced unconsciously by three distinct drives—the Survival, Expressive, and Quiescence Drives—with time structured in terms of stroke economy only under the Survival Drive. A significant amount of time is also required under the influence of the other two drives, both of which operate with rules other than those of work for survival purposes or those related to stroke economy.
Various brief examples are given to illustrate how inchoate feelings of discontent and various disturbing symptoms are often due to the fact that the influence of the three drives is not adequately balanced. In addition, a longer example shows how inappropriate projections and difficulties may occur in a relationship because of differences between the partner's needs for time under each drive and how EPT can help them identify these differences and thus to resolve important misunderstandings.
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