The goal of the current study was to examine processes by which shared spiritual practices, such as denominational homogamy, praying together, discussing spiritual topics, and serving in a Church setting together, are associated with attachment to spouse and relationship satisfaction. Sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy were included as possible mediators of the associations. The results suggested that proximal spiritual practices (e.g., praying together, discussing spiritual topics together) were more closely associated with relationship functioning than distal practices (e.g., denominational homogamy). In addition, serial mediation models indicated that sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy mediated the link between shared spiritual practices and relationship satisfaction. Sanctification of marriage was directly associated with relationship satisfaction, while spiritual intimacy was additionally mediated by attachment to spouse in its association with satisfaction. The results are discussed in light of future research needs and implications for practitioners and individuals working in faith communities.
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